(Surprise!) Bday Party

From an anthropological and social perspective, birthday parties and surprise birthday parties, in particular, represent a ritualistic (and sometimes public) affirmation of social bonds and community ties, emphasizing affection, appreciation and social recognition for the individual being celebrated, thereby enhancing their sense of belonging. These happenings mark the passage of time while reinforcing norms and values related to aging, memory, milestones and celebration. They also serve to consolidate social cohesion, collective identity and cultural values.

Birthday parties often act as markers of growth and achievement. Additionally, they typically incorporate elements like cake, balloons, gifts, and specific rituals that carry symbolic meaning within a given culture.

The surprise element amplifies the emotional impact of the event, showcasing the effort and thoughtfulness of the organizers. This, in turn, fortifies bonds within the group and highlights the importance of care in relationships. The surprise can represent spontaneity and joy, key values in many cultures, and the act of gathering people underscores the significance of community and shared experiences. However, the reaction can sometimes be contrary to the organizers’ intentions—for example, when the person being celebrated is known for avoiding the spotlight or being shy, or becomes overwhelmed and/or anxious.

November 8 - 12, 2024

Brooklyn Art Cave, Brooklyn NY

Dance performance "Select Mannerisms" (choreography by Ava Desiderio): Ava Desiderio Interactive art performance "Welcome to Clowntown" (Tanya Perez) Dance performance "Renters Insurance" (choreography by Magali Johnston-Viens): Ava Desiderio, Sophie Herron, Molly Rumble

Photos by Elmer Quintero and Raluca Anchidin